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[babermetrics]

Yo, you've reached Kuwata Leon! I'm probably busy right now, buuuut just leave me a message and I'll totally make time for you later!

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[protectthecastle]

I see. It is too bad then that you do not like it. From what I have read, it sounds very interesting. I am sorry that you do not like it.

Although I agree that if you had not liked it, then surely you should have done something else. Even if it does not make money, I think your happiness is the most important thing.

And yes, I am with you. But is it a kiss on the cheek or on the lips? Why is a kiss considered the first step?

[babermetrics]

On the lips for sure

If a guy told me he got to first base with a girl and he meant a kiss on the cheek Id laugh in his face lol

And a kiss is just what you do first.......right? I mean I guess not all sex has kissing probably

Ive never had sex where I didnt kiss though

[protectthecastle]

I do not know if it is, but I suppose that is as good a place to start as any.

Though I would think that you talk to them first. And ask them if they wish to have sex. That is how I would like it to happen. That is how the books say it should.

I have not had sex but Angelo did kiss me a lot. Although I suppose if someone does not like kissing, then they will not do it.

I am not entirely sure what the appeal of it is.

[babermetrics]

Well yeah the part where you agree to have sex first definitely happens first but its not the same as foreplay

Its like foreforeplay??

This Angelo guy must be a shitty kisser lmao

It feels good if you do it right

Probably some people just dont like it but I cant understand that

[protectthecastle]

I see! Foreforeplay. I have never heard that word used, but it is quite apt, is it not?

I do not know if he is a shitty kisser but he used to kiss me often without any warning or permission and I did not like it.

And I have kissed Makoto before but that was a dare and while it was nice, I did not think much of it at the time. It was just physical contact.

I think it is possible that everyone has their own interests. You like kissing, perhaps they like other things.

[babermetrics]

Yeah I just made it up lol

But its a good one right??

I gotta stop swearing around you its too weird seein you do it back lol

If he was doin that stuff to you hes a creep and if he ever does it again you should tell me so I can kick his ass

To me not liking kissing is like not liking air but I guess youre probably right about that

[protectthecastle]

It is a very good one!

Why is it weird? Is it not simply a word?

You do not need to. He has promised me that he will not do so anymore and I believe him.

Do you kiss your friend often, then? The one whose pants look good on your floor.

[babermetrics]

Its weird cuz you dont seem like the kinda girl whod swear!

Im glad hes not givin you trouble anymore tho. You dont deserve that crap

Weve only had sex a couple times......shes not really the type to just sit around and make out for fun

Its too bad cuz Id be into that if she was

I guess I wish we kissed a little more lol

[protectthecastle]

And what kind of girl is it that would swear? If it is apt, surely there is no harm in using it?

Thank you. I am sure he only did as he thought was best. He listens to reason though there are times he tries to give conditions for him accepting my terms. But I believe he is not an unkind person.

Perhaps you could ask her? Have you tried?

[babermetrics]

idk I dont meet a lot of girls who swear actually

Punk girls probably

Just take care of yourself ok? Around creepy dudes

lol no shed laugh at me

Or she might like break it off or something

[protectthecastle]

I wonder why that is? I do not believe I have met any.

And I will take care of myself as best as I can. Thank you.

I see. I do not wish to ask you to do anything you are not comfortable with, but perhaps she will not. There is an equal chance of that, is that not so?

[babermetrics]

idk its just not really a thing

Just like how most girls dont make the first move on guys

But some do, just not as much

Anyway I dont even know if she likes kissing much. I could try and find out

Like she likes it enough to do it with me when we screw but thats different

[protectthecastle]

But then why is that? Surely someone's gender has no bearing on whether or not they are allowed to "make the first move" as it were?

I think you should try. It is a question and you are allowed to ask, are you not? I hope she does.

[babermetrics]

Its just how stuff is! idk girls arent as into sex right? I think its like that

I dont wanna do anything thatll make her not like me as much.......not that she really likes me anyway

[protectthecastle]

I could not say. I have not had much interest in sex but perhaps I am not entirely qualified to say so. Perhaps it is different for all girls?

I see. I can understand that, I think. Though I do not think that she will dislike you. You have many wonderful qualities. But I think that the most important thing is what you think it best to do, as well. As long as you have no regrets, everything will be fine.

[babermetrics]

Yeah......probably....I mean all girls are different just like all guys...

[He says, despite having just stereotyped them all in his very last text.]

lol thanks I guess

No I mean it

Shes just not very nice yknow? Shes better than she seems on the surface but shes still a jerk who looks down on everyone including me even if were sleeping together

[protectthecastle]

They are. But I think that is what makes girls as well as guys so interesting. They have all lived different lives and like different things. I think it is very cute.

You are welcome.

But why does she look down on you? May I ask why?

[She doesn't know a girl here who looks down on people.

....Though she does recall a Byakuya Togami who looked down on everyone and everything excluding himself and his family. But Leon did say "she", and so Veronica tucks it away as a thought for another day.]

[babermetrics]

When you say interesting do you mean like

Are you into girls too??

Or you dont mean romantically huh

Anyway she just looks down on everyone lol thats her personality.......shes stuck up

[A white lie that is serving him well, so far.]

[protectthecastle]

I meant interesting to mean that I would like to talk to them and know more about them. But surely a romantic interest has more to do with who they are, does it not?

I see. I was not aware that was a personality trait. But I am not entirely certain that it is a good thing that she looks down on you.

[babermetrics]

Yeah I never said it was a good thing...............

But anyway I guess thats true for some people but sometimes who they are doesnt matter if theyre not what youre attracted to yknow?

Like if you didnt have any interest in kissing girls or touching them naked then their personality doesnt matter even if its totally great cuz you just wont ever like them that way!

You really never heard of this before??

[protectthecastle]

No, you did not.

I have never kissed a girl but surely they are just as attractive as boys are? Rida, Cordelia, Mimi, Adel, Rahzel, Kaoru, Snow White, Lily, Natsuru, Erina, Nui, Yuu, they are all very beautiful in their own way. They are wise, cute, kind, talented, and sincere, surely that would be attractive to anyone regardless of their gender? I am not entirely certain I understand the difference.

And no, I have not heard of this before.

[babermetrics]

Trust me I know all about how attractive girls are lol

And look

Dont tell anyone this cuz its a secret but Ill tell you cuz I trust you and I know you wont be weird about it

Especially after sayin all that

But my pants on the floor friend is actually a guy.........

Ive been screwing around with a guy

I didnt think I liked guys before and I still dunno if I do but I at least like having sex with them

But idk if Id wanna date one

I dont know how to explain if youve never heard of it before but most people just like one or the other

Mostly the opposite

So most guys just like girls! Romantically and in bed

Its not cuz theres anything wrong with guys theres just like........not attraction idk....

[protectthecastle]

Why would it be weird? Has someone been "weird" about it when you told them?

[And does she need to be angry at them for making Leon unhappy? That is the real question here.]

I do not see why it is weird. Surely it is your choice? As long as you are happy, I do not see why anyone should find it weird.

And no, I have not heard of that. It is a preference, is it not? Just because it is what "most" people do, that does not make it weird if you are different. I have read that enjoying sex has much to do with feeling comfortable with your partner. But it does not say that you will only enjoy it if your partner is of a certain gender.

[babermetrics]

Not to me cuz I dont tell anyone

Only three people know and one of thems the guy Im screwing

It just doesnt work that way.........look idk how to explain it

Its not that easy. Being gay

NOT THAT IM GAY

I dont know what I am but Im not gay!

That means guys that like guys or girls that like girls btw

It just is weird. In my world, maybe not in yours

Or maybe you just never heard of it

[protectthecastle]

[Give her a moment while she looks this up:]

It is "bisexual", is it not? It is when you like both girls and guys.

And it should not be weird, regardless of the world you are from. I have not heard of it, but I have now and I still do not find it weird. Is it not easy because people find it weird? But why?